hi, can anyone help me. recently I get lots of upside in my career. And today I try to explain to my staff about work. Suddenly, she start argue with me, then she manipulate the story, she is easily lied on many things. I don’t know what to do. Previously, I was posted for promotion and when I start work I found lots of error. Not in proper when start changing she argue and always be rude. I am too down to earth now. I don’t easily get angry. I am diplomatic person it’s just don’t start anything wrong and keep doing the wrong infront of my eyes. Because there will be one day I am going to questions on the wrong thing. And at that moment I need proper answers.
About my life, my relationship with my mother is not so. But its OK somehow. I am adjust, so she. My siblings realise this, and they know the the difference how my mother with me. But recently, my mum is more caring, she always ask me to eat before going to sleep. I tries to on diet and avoid food because now when ever I consume food I can feel the heat of my body is increase getting sweating.
About relationships, I was never been I any relationship. I was like one guy via chat (he just lived in foreign country) later I realise he is don’t like me and I moved on. After that the major sick occur, I was stuck (got memory issue). Later I find someone in Internet again and I was attracted to this guy. And I slowly recall about the first guy. I was attracted to almost the same date of born person. Then by time I stop because its end up by arguments and the was one girl also like him and she play in between. He and I was like almost to try to meet up and date. But all endup in vain. Never date anyone yet. so, now I don’t show any interest on anyone. Just want to find one guy and get married, settle down as going older. So far nobody. But I realise there is one guy (chinese – different race from me. I am indian girl) currently like need my help or like he want ask for something. As he is working in same area. So, he parking his car near to me always and take long way to his working place. But what I realised is he always bring another girl for lunch. It’s bad happens that I am get my promotion to his working place. And I avoid from parking at that side, since this week, Monday.
Another things. I always become some victim or mistaken when anything happened. Like event I didn’t do any wrong but I will get involved and I will be come the one to be blamed.
Really hope for some solutions.
I don’t have saving, driving second hand car. tired to purchase house 3 times all failed. Now I am tried to buy one again.