Birth Details:
Name: Venkata Sai Pavan Kumar
DOB: 14 – 09 – 1996 Time : 12:45 PM.
DOD : 19 – 12 – 2022 Time: 2:30 PM.
We got our daughter married in dec 2021 and we moved into our new house in June 2022.
My son is a very healthy and Active boy. He studied well and has a good career. He went on a trip to Lonavala with 10 other friends and got a respiratory cardiac arrest. We are unable to accept it. I always checked his horoscope thoroughly and it never mentioned any kind of harm to him. Did we do something wrong that led to this situation?
Madam / sir, I pray to god to give you strength and love. It is not an easy situation you are facing. At the same time, it is a fact that what starts will have to end.
With reference to astrology part: Ravan, Sri Ram, Sri Krishna, Sahdev in Mahabharat, Raja Parikshit, and many great pandits, rishis, and astrologers – all have left their mortal body at some point of time in way or another (peacefully, cheating, battle, disease, etc) and NOBODY has a remedy to stop death when the time has come. See how many spiritual gurus have died of cancer etc.
There could be a few reasons behind you not knowing about this, which include:
1. Timing of death is not very simple – there are certain charts where it is easier to predict and certain charts where it is harder.
2. The astrologer has to be really good to be able to predict the timing of death accurately, which is not very common. And extreme surety is needed to make such a big prediction as it can have unimaginable impact on the native and his family.
3. Even if you do have a great astrologer, 99% of the times he will NOT reveal it to you for the simple reason that nothing can be done about it and you will not be able to accept this fact (acceptance after the death is also difficult, so acceptance before the death is a quality that is very rare).
4. The chart can help in timing even small things like a petty day-care surgery. Of course even death can be timed. But Even an astrologer can only see what god wants him to see, and predict what god wants him to predict.
I lost my mother (46 years) 3 weeks ago. In last 8 months, we had done so many pujas (unknowingly and just out of devotion, without asking for anything) at such perfect muhurta (like Dhanvantari homa on Diwali chaturdashi morning, Sarpa dosha puja during Rahu kaal on purnima Tuesday in Srikalahasti, mahamrityunjay Homa on purnima, etc) – I only realised the muhurta weeks after the puja – but she still passed away, simply because her karma in this world was over and it was time for the soul to move ahead. Tridev also openly say that they cannot grant immortality even after the most difficult tapasya…
Life is not a reward and death is not a punishment for doing something wrong. For Ashwatthama, life is a punishment and for Meera, death is a reward.
God sent me an ocean of his blessing through Srimad Bhagvat Mahapuran (not the “satsang pravachan” type. Just a simple Hindi version by Bhajan Sansar), I will highly recommend the same to you if possible.
Thank you so much for gathering yourself from your grief and sharing your answer to the question. ?? You are right that death is not a punishment for some wrongdoing. His karma got over and he moved on leaving behind a wound that would remain fresh forever. Please stay strong for your family. And feel free to share your grief with us. We are still in the beginning of accepting what happened and your insights are really helpful ??