I am asking regarding marriage of my sister.
My sister is facing a lot of mental harrasment in her marriage since the day she got married not only from her husband but also his parents.
What is her karma regarding marriage??
Her d.o.b is – 28/09/1994
Time- 6:23 am
Place – haldwani, uttrakhand
Husband’s –
D o.b- 18/1/1990
Time- 11:24 am
Place- Delhi
Will she be able to find happiness in her marriage or is it better to get separated??
According to the charts, There might be ego clashes. Because of husband and communication gap arises. He thinks your sister has very cold and stubborn nature. Your sister is slightly stubborn too. So, If they talk to each other with the purpose of solution. Things can settle down. Tell her to worship Lakshmi Narayan daily. Need to tame diwn the ego from both the sides. Move away from in- law. If possible.
The matching of charts is fine, it is good that these 2 people got married.
Problem in the charts is on an individual level – both people have combinations for some struggle in married life. Chart of the girl shows more lessons to be learnt than the chart of the boy.
Even while getting your sister married, family mustāve faced lot of troubles and obstacles, and even back-and-forth with the boyās family.
Your sister tries to control her husband, she tries to keep teaching him things and trying to change his morals, principles, etc. She tried to make rules for him and also wants to initiate new ways of handling money independently. This is being transformative and uncomfortable for him and the husband is taking the support of his parents. When this happens, your sister feels singled out in the house and thinks that the husband and his family are teaming up against her. Both people also have strong ego issues.
Actually your sisterās in-laws have a secondary role here because they are just participants. The troublemakers are the husband and wife. Wife tries to overpower the husband and the family steps in to save him.
It is a 2-way issue. It is advisable to resolve the issue mainly because both people have some difficulty in married in life (your sister feels like she has more trouble than the husband) – so even if you get them separated and married to someone else, they will still have to work through the same challenges all over again – until they overcome them, so why not work it out here itself?
Things to be done by your sister (irrespective of whom she is married to or how many times marriage takes place) – results will be seen from first week itself –
1. Stop trying to play the role of a teacher/ruler for the husband. Be a friend and partner. If he is wrong in something, itās fine – even she is wrong somewhere – everyone is. If she has to change something in him, she should change it slowly, gradually, one by one, and must also respect his perspective equal to her own. Not everything in a person can be changed even if itās wrong. Your sister can work on changing herself as well – but she keeps thinking sheās always right.
2. Pending karma of your sister is to not give free advice, give advice and freedom people – she has a tendency that people who take advice from her should compulsorily listen to her – that can never happen (Eg. even she may not listen to what Iām saying here :P). This is especially more in marriage because Jupiter is also her 7th lord. She also has to learn the karm-yog in marriage and family – fulfilling her duty but not expecting anything in return.
3. Ask her to read some good books on how compromises are the foundation of marriage, and how to make yourself the best wife instead of making your husband the best husband.
4. Wear lose clothes, especially after 4 PM.
5. Let the coupleās bedroom be open and airy, have lots of space, remove unnecessary items and electronics. Similarly let the bed also have open space on 3 sides. If possible, let the bedroom door also be wide. Bedroom should be well ventilated.
6. Your sister has paap-kartari on 7th house by Saturn and Ketu – past karma is that she has suffocated spouse and separated him from the family. Story is tending to repeat even this time, but she should not allow that. Remedy is to massage husbandās feet and calves with chameli oil every Saturday. And also offer [1 lemon mala] or [3 lemons] to Hanumanji for 8 continuous Tuesday’s every 6 months.
7. Husband mustāve collected old broken items / spares etc to make something new – he should discard that and not collect such items.
karmiĀ to hai hi ek hi garah bata rha hai
wo baad me kuch question ka a answar d
kya ghr me jis room merhti hai mandir hai puja room ya bhagwan ki murti
aur kya ghr me kutta hai
aur 24 sal se phle marrige hui thi
I’m so sorry to hear about the mental harrasment your sister is facing in her marriage. It is so important to have a loving and supportive relationship, and it sounds like she is not getting that. I hope that she is able to find the happiness and peace she deserves.