My father smokes a lot, he does not listen to any body, he is on medication for his mental problem, He will not listen, I am having frequent headache from the smoke of his cigarettes and keep on getting sinus issues, already my mental health is bad, I am sick of it all. Please need a quick solution. Not able to study properly.
Need help.
19th May 2002 5:19 PM Gopalganj Bihar.
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Ma’am does your father smoke in the bathroom or outside?
In his room, main hall, in the car, outside.
Does he have terrible nightmares? Sleep issues. Are there lots of plants in your house, especially creeper plants like money plant? Are there any in his bedroom? The creeper plants if any, need to go. Also your father needs to wear a silver chain and remove any gold.
You also need to calmly make him understand to smoke outside. If he keeps smoking at home, it could have dire effects on the family. Money issues, someone in the family will have nerve issues. Is there a mentally retarded person in the family?
I think he has nightmare problems, and also his sleep is very disturbed, yes there are many plants in my house, we didn’t have any creepers at first but I grew money plant last year, not in his bedroom, but he has these problems before me planting money plants,there are many plants on floor adjactly above his room, do I need to remove creeper plants from all over the house ?
I made dadi talk to him, I will try to talk to him , There were 2 mentally retarded person in my family that I know of , my father is facing nerve issues, and, me too. Depression anxiety. Father hallucinate things, also has depression.
If he agrees to smoke outside or quit completely then you don’t need to remove the creeper plants, just make sure they’re not blocking any sun light, like they’re not on windows. But if he doesn’t agree then yes, remove the creeper plants at least. The other plants are Ok. He’s constantly activating the whole family’s 8th H by smoking inside. If he can’t quit, he has to smoke outside the house. There should be no negotiations with this. Everybody who lives in the house must take a stand together & confront him.
I have seen him smoking since I was 5 years of age, we have tried many times, he doesn’t listen to anybody. I will try one more time. thank you for helping