Namaskar,

Checking compound relationships of different planets with Lagna lord Jupiter, Rahu is in Marana karaka sthana. Also there are exchanges between Sun/Rahu and Jupiter/Saturn. 3rd and 9th house axis has afflictions.

Atmakaraka is mercury. Sun being Ishta devata and Venus indicating dharma devata.

For Rahu , you can chant durga saptashloki everyday.

Venus indicates Maa Laksmi  – worship Maa  during sunset/night especially on Fridays. You can chant sri suktam/aarti.

Early morning giving surya argh is highly recommended for direction in life and spiritual progress. You can also worship Lord Rama or Shiva(whichever you have affinity to).

The beauty about doing Saatvik remedies is that they reduce the bad effects caused by malefics in your chart and increase the effects of benefics .

Your D9 chart changes 1 min earlier – chart rectification is recommended analysing life events.

Hari Om!

Namaskar,

In D9, Narayana dasa of Ta is running from 20 sep 2018 till 21 sep 2030. Venus being the 7th lord in D9 chart will give its results from 21 sep 2023 t0 20 sep 24. This is a favorable time for marriage.

In your chart , chaturaseeti sama dasa applies. Jupiter MD is running which is capable of giving marriage(Jupiter being lagna lord in D1) and Saturn AD has started from 14 June 2022 till 29 Feb 2024(in D9 Saturn is UL & AL lord and exalted in 7th house).

Annual Tp chart of 2023 looks promising. Hora lord mars giving a chandramangal yoga in lagna aspecting 7th house and UL lord Ve (In D9). Venus is also aspecting UL in D1 and is 7th lord as well. 11 November 2023 to 24 January 2024 likely the marriage time.

Deducing from above, Early Nov 2023 to End Jan 2024 is favorable time period.

Some worship suggestions –

1. Fast on Wednesdays(sunrise to sunset) and upon breaking the fast worship Maa Lakshmi.
2. For direction – worship Lord Ganesha. Recite Shri Ganpati Atharvashirsha daily and start your day.

All the best..

Hari Om!

Namaskar,

Taking 1986 year in the male chart .

1. Checking Moon signs – 2/12 relationship – not favorable
2. Checking nakshatra –  male naksatra is mitra tara from your naksatra but Female naksatra is vipat tara from male naksatra –  this is usually the case in most charts
3. Checking both lagna – kendra – favorable
4. Checking Venus placement (karaka of love/harmony) – you both have Venus in 8th house in mercurial sign – not favorable
5. Checking dasas –  25 June marriage makes sense in the male chart – he was running Jupiter MD Ke AD Ma PD(in D9 Jup is 7th(marriage/partnership) lord in lagna and Ke(Karaka of lineage) is in 4th conjoined UL lord Saturn and Mars. But his D9 chart changes 24 seconds later(more rectification is required – that is only possible with more life event times) . In female chart, special conditional dasa chaturaseeti sama dasa applies. Marriage happened in Mercury MD Mercury AD and Venus PD(in D9 mercury is lagna lord aspecting Ve and Ke(UL lord))
6. Afflictions to marriage – in both chart ,2nd house from UL (resources/sustenance of marriage) does not have serious afflictions. The marriage (UL) though has afflictions – indicating hindrances to marriage in the first place. May be some apprehensions from relatives etc – which is continuing.

Anyhow, analyzing the above and what you have mentioned, I have few suggestions as a well wisher and as a medium –

1. If you both are not in talking terms from august 2021, you have to take into account what your other half thinks about the marriage. If he wants to make it work, try to make it work by forgetting the past conversations and experiences. THIS WILL BE DIFFICULT BECAUSE ITS A HUMAN TENDENCY TO RELOOK AT EXPERINCES AND ACT.
2. If any one of you two, does not want to continue, there is separation.
3. If your other half does not want to talk this thru, you should move on. Sometimes we have to go through some things in life for us to find a higher purpose and peaceful path. Always remember, we are here to experience things individually as an atman – we were born alone and we all, will leave alone. The world we know is just for us to experience and learn.

Sharing some remedies for both of you(as a couple) and for you(personally) –

1. You both together should worship Lord Ram and Sita and Hanuman. Establish ram darbar picture in home mandir and  pray together (especially on Sundays) – recite Sita Ram mantra 108 times with a tulsi mala (also called sita-vallabha mantra – om namo bhagwate sitavallabhaya namah and On Tuesdays recite hanuman chalisa followed by recitation of ram naam 108 times with a tulsi mala.
2. For your personal spiritual growth and direction in life – worship Lord Shiva. Shivlinga abhishekam is highly recommended especially on Mondays.
3. Hanuman/ Subramanya (lord karthikeya) worship will guide you to do right things in life. Do include any one(whoever you have affinity to) in your daily prayers.

Hope you will find your light!

Hari Om

Namaskar,

Taking lagna (its stronger than moon) as seed in Vimsottari dasa, you are running Ketu MD (MAY 2018 TO MAY 2025). It explains you quitting job and starting business/freelance work. Ketu being in 7th house of business/contractual work. Jupiter AD brought in business. Jupiter being 7th lord in 7th from Ketu(4th from AL).

However in D2, Ketu is 12th lord in Lagna indicating expenditure. Moon or Mars AD could have brought loan/debt, moon being 8th lord and mars A8 lord. This is not a conducive dasa and looks like next MD of Venus will bring major relief in 2025.

Looking at the transits, Saturn transit in Aquarius will bring some relief in mid Jan. Also Jupiter’s transit into Aries will be a saving grace (currently Jupiter is in 6th from natal Jupiter).

Till then, would suggest to keep working hard and be cautious on expenses. Save up as much as you can.

Some remedies – you can propitiate Saturn. You can fast on Saturdays and worship Maa Kali. Kali kavacham is suggested(https://stotram.co.in/kali-kavacham-1/)

Another useful remedy to get some relief from debt is to recite hanuman chalisa daily (same time same place) 21 times for 21 days. Light a desi ghee diya. After completion , recite rama naam 108 times as well.

Hari Om!