Married Life Problems

Namaskar,

Taking 1986 year in the male chart .

1. Checking Moon signs – 2/12 relationship – not favorable
2. Checking nakshatra –  male naksatra is mitra tara from your naksatra but Female naksatra is vipat tara from male naksatra –  this is usually the case in most charts
3. Checking both lagna – kendra – favorable
4. Checking Venus placement (karaka of love/harmony) – you both have Venus in 8th house in mercurial sign – not favorable
5. Checking dasas –  25 June marriage makes sense in the male chart – he was running Jupiter MD Ke AD Ma PD(in D9 Jup is 7th(marriage/partnership) lord in lagna and Ke(Karaka of lineage) is in 4th conjoined UL lord Saturn and Mars. But his D9 chart changes 24 seconds later(more rectification is required – that is only possible with more life event times) . In female chart, special conditional dasa chaturaseeti sama dasa applies. Marriage happened in Mercury MD Mercury AD and Venus PD(in D9 mercury is lagna lord aspecting Ve and Ke(UL lord))
6. Afflictions to marriage – in both chart ,2nd house from UL (resources/sustenance of marriage) does not have serious afflictions. The marriage (UL) though has afflictions – indicating hindrances to marriage in the first place. May be some apprehensions from relatives etc – which is continuing.

Anyhow, analyzing the above and what you have mentioned, I have few suggestions as a well wisher and as a medium –

1. If you both are not in talking terms from august 2021, you have to take into account what your other half thinks about the marriage. If he wants to make it work, try to make it work by forgetting the past conversations and experiences. THIS WILL BE DIFFICULT BECAUSE ITS A HUMAN TENDENCY TO RELOOK AT EXPERINCES AND ACT.
2. If any one of you two, does not want to continue, there is separation.
3. If your other half does not want to talk this thru, you should move on. Sometimes we have to go through some things in life for us to find a higher purpose and peaceful path. Always remember, we are here to experience things individually as an atman – we were born alone and we all, will leave alone. The world we know is just for us to experience and learn.

Sharing some remedies for both of you(as a couple) and for you(personally) –

1. You both together should worship Lord Ram and Sita and Hanuman. Establish ram darbar picture in home mandir and  pray together (especially on Sundays) – recite Sita Ram mantra 108 times with a tulsi mala (also called sita-vallabha mantra – om namo bhagwate sitavallabhaya namah and On Tuesdays recite hanuman chalisa followed by recitation of ram naam 108 times with a tulsi mala.
2. For your personal spiritual growth and direction in life – worship Lord Shiva. Shivlinga abhishekam is highly recommended especially on Mondays.
3. Hanuman/ Subramanya (lord karthikeya) worship will guide you to do right things in life. Do include any one(whoever you have affinity to) in your daily prayers.

Hope you will find your light!

Hari Om