I am married and it was love marriage but nothing is going as smooth as before. I am having mental problems and behaviour is impulsive, insane and strange. I am having a panic attacks.
Marriage date 13 Dec 2018
My name: Bhoomi
DOB: 08 Feb 1994, Time: 10:08 AM
Place: Ahmedabad
Husband name: Mitul
DOB: 12 Aug 1991, Time: 19:51 PM
Place: Kushalgarh, Rajasthan
Please suggest something.
Madam, your marriage problems appear to be a side-effect of some issues in other circumstances. You are currently running Rahu mahadasha and Saturn antardasha. Additionally, you have just completed your Sade-sati period when Saturn moved to Aquarius. Your 12th house is quite heavy at this point of time. And your Moon is under the influence of strong malefics including Saturn and Rahu, but is not getting help from anyone, so activation of Saturn and Rahu by dasha is also putting mental pressure on you. Please don’t see any of this negatively as planets are only working to help our souls evolve and become better, so take it as a blessing in disguise and try to do your best with your life situations.
The next couple of years will be an important phase for your soul where you have the opportunity to really make it grow and shine.
Please do the following remedies to help you:
1. Breathing exercise and pranayama on a daily basis. Learn from a proper yoga teacher. Shambhavi Mahamudra is one really wonderful yoga practice, you would benefit from that.
2. You have to learn to let things go and not stretch your imagination more than required, and keep the boundary between your imagination and reality. Try a few sessions with a counsellor/therapist (I don’t mean psychiatrist) or counsellor+healer. Please don’t see this in a wrong way, as a counsellor is just a friend who helps us process our emotions and thoughts in a better way, and some counselling is really encouraged for everybody even if their life is going perfectly smooth. Just like how we would visit a doctor even for small physical health issues and they help us solve it better or do preventive health checkups, it’s the same for our mental health also.
3. Chant few malas of “om namaha Shivaya” everyday, using rudraksh mala. Also keep a shivling at your home temple and do abhishek on shivling everyday in following way: first, with little clean water. Second, take little water and add 2-3 drops of sandalwood oil in it and do abhishek with this (if you don’t want to use sandalwood oil then skip this step, and instead light sandalwood scent agarbatti for Shivji at home and also give the same in Shivji temple). Third, with some raw cow milk. Finally, with clean water again.
4. Visit some hilltop temple every 2-3 months, better if you find an ugra devi temple or Bhairav bhagwan or Maa Saraswati temple. Bring 1-2 litres water from the temple on every visit and consume 1-2 sips everyday. From the same temple bring ash (vibhuti or raakh) or white chandan, and mix it with that water and apply it everyday.
5. Make donations to the extent possible for you. And not one-time very large donations, but daily or weekly small donations. Do seva in a nearby temple regularly. Donate food grains, clothes (black, multi-coloured, etc), food, footwear, electronic items, walking sticks, prosthetics, medicines, etc. Do this as your capacity allows you to do happily, no need to create strain.
6. Treat servants at home with respect and give them something to eat or drink when they come to work.
7. Keep Ekadashi fast and read the story related to the fast also. Nirjala Ekadashi is coming this month and is one of the best Ekadashi fasts. Do follow rules of ekadashi fasting.
For marriage, you and your husband can do some simple remedies together which will really uplift your relationship and strengthen the love between you both.
1. Be patient in communication and don’t fight or judge each other. Be supportive to each other.
2. Play some competitive sport like badminton or tennis, or do some energetic dance like zumba together.
The nimitta while reading your chart and giving remedies was so excellent that I cannot describe it!
ketu is prominent in your chart.
because of ketu you feel detach , impulse , isolate.
wear a pukhraj stone .
food is also waste in your home .. or fall when eats.
drink ashvgandha in evening.
meditate daily.
Hello, thank you for your feedback.
I just wanted to share with you that I consulted an astrologer two years ago who advised me to wear a pearl stone on the ring finger of my right hand. I was told that it would calm my mind.
1.) Could you please tell me if I should continue wearing the Pearl stone or if I should take it off? Usually, I noticed that people are wearing pinky/last/small fingers.
> In spite of this, very few astrologers suggest wearing a Peral stone on the ring finger. What is the reason for saying differently?
2.) Would you mind telling me more about Pukhraj? Such as is there a minimum carat size?
I am looking forward to hearing from you.
Kind regards
rahenga marrige ka issue
ur chart hi bata rha hai
love ya arrange prblm to deta hi
join hospital work ya koi medical se juda kaam start ho ske to accha rhenga
kaam aur marrige bhi ya vakalt padho book padho kaam dengaa
shayad aapki ketu mahadasha chal rahi hogae .aap online check kar lijiye aapki kaunsi dash chal rahi hai
Hello, thank you for your feedback.
I just wanted to share with you that I consulted an astrologer two years ago who advised me to wear a pearl stone on the ring finger of my right hand. I was told that it would calm my mind.
1.) Could you please tell me if I should continue wearing the Pearl stone or if I should take it off? Usually, I noticed that people are wearing pinky/last/small fingers.
> In spite of this, very few astrologers suggest wearing a Peral stone on the ring finger. What is the reason for saying differently?
2.) Would you mind telling me more about Pukhraj? Such as is there a minimum carat size?
I am looking forward to hearing from you.
Kind regards