hi. I am living a very stressfull life right after I met my husband in arrange marriage setup and after being married to him my health and financial situation started degrading. he is alcoholic and smoke a lot. earning is also very less. always control me and takes every decision doesn’t respect me at all. made me cutoff all ties with my family mother and father and everyone. I feel very suffocating living in a prison without any freedom. I tried to adjust and compromise but still no results. I want to leave him but he doesn’t let me go. he is a selfie person. please help I want to get out from this marriage don’t want to suffer my whole life. my dob 16/oct/1992 time 06:28am, Ludhiana Punjab.
husband dob 5/oct/1990. time 2:05pm Jind haryana.
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ha chart bata rha hai bahut jyda tension health isue bhi 2020 se hai aur aug 2022 se to pura ladai aur rog bimari
alaga hi hota dikh rha hai aaj na to kl
wahi sahi hai
baki apko santi chhaiye to ha aap kuvh upay kr skti per per wo bhi abhi kaam nhi aayega
The charts are an average match.
Both of you will have flaws to point out in the marriage and in each other, but there is not much use in doing that.
For you:
1. Lower your ego. Being peaceful is more important than being right. Don’t criticise your husband especially about his personality. Marriage (this one or subsequent one if you plan) will be a place where you should make internal peace, give from your end and not expect in return.
2. You will feel like your spouse wants to control you, he’s always watching you / influencing you, etc – this will go away gradually.
3. When you fell sick one time, you would have made a promise to god (couple god like Lakshmi-Narayan) to distribute food or for kanya bhojan – that has to be completed.
4. Bring bhasma from Batuk-Bhairav bhagwan temple for you and your husband, and you apply it to yourself and to him everyday (you have to apply it to him yourself).
5. Wear black or dark blue colours.
6. Apply ashwagandha oil on your face every night at the same time.
7. Bring some fresh flowers for your bedroom every Friday evening and discard them on Saturday evening.
For your husband, if possible:
1. Your husband is terribly obsessed with you. He needs to let go of the obsession.
2. He needs to help distressed / sick / widowed / pregnant women / single mothers regularly (weekly, monthly, etc, in a routine manner). Help them restart life etc.
3. Â Put a few drops of ashwagandha oil in his bathing water every alternate Friday.
4. Remove TV / other electronics from room (at least cover them if cannot be removed), and also cover/remove mirrors in which bed is seen from any angle.
5. Make him donate mirrors in a temple / religious place. (If he doesn’t do it, you can do it after making him touch the mirror or if that’s also not possible then you can do it by praying in his name).
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bhakoot dosha is there which means health of one of them will not be good…and ur husband has rahu in lagna which makes him self obsessed and jupiter and ketu conjunction in 7th house….which is creating troubles….try to make him understand ur problems….initially few yrs u have to suffer then it would be fine….and lower your ego and express urself….
This is a type of personality disorder called narcissistic personality. they never change. Day by day it will get get worse.