namaste sir. my DoB -1 nov 1992,time 2:15 pm , birth place – shivpuri (mp) , sir mai abhi navratri ka vrat kr rahi hu. par during vrat. navratri ke first day morning ka bhog banate hue. mera hath jal gya, aj navratri ka 6th day mai din k time jis room m puja hoti hai, Akhandjyoti prajulit ki hai.. usi room mai per slip hone ke karan mai puri puja par hi gir gyi bhut tej puja ki jgha pr akhandjyoti par gir gyi…. puja puri ast vyst ho gyi.. dobara saaf safayi krke maine dubara akhandjyoti prajulit ki…. vrat aur puja toh mai continue kar rahi hu. lekin Aap ye bataye ki iska mtlb kya hai.. mujhe samajh nhi a rha puja mai itna bada vighn kyu hua? iska mtlb kya hai? I m very scared.
Don’t be scared. Jab maine second day vrat kiya tha, galat banate samay mere haath mein gehra cut ho gaya. Aaj 8th day vrat kiya, court ka summon aa gaya 😛 it’s all good. Mata rani sab accha karegi, aap koi dar ya vehem na kare. Puja aur vrat continue karke accha kiya. Sacche man se continue kare aur agar koi bhi chinta ho toh mata ke saamne kuch phal, mithai, paan-supari, kuch dakshina, ityadi rakhke unhe arpit kare aur jaani-anjaani bhul ki maafi maange (yeh baad main mandir mein de de ya gaay ko de de). Devi Maa ke kshama prarthana stotra ka 1, 5, ya 11 baar jaap kare aur unke saamne maatha teke.
Yadi koi galti hui hai aapse, toh uske 2 hi phal hain – ya toh maafi ya sabak. Maafi yaani khud sikhne ka avasar hai. Sabak yaani avasar milne par nahi sikha isliye sikhaye jaoge taaki aur badi galti se bacho. Dono mein aapka hi bhala hai. Toh dariye mat 🙂
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